Many of the comments/posts I have seen on Octavia have made me (and others I know of as well) feel very uncomfortable. I think it may be of interest to some people to consider the following:
(There's plenty more where those came from.)
You don't have to agree with them, and they're not all completely objective, but they do bring up good points. Next time you condone all of Octavia's actions, think about what, exactly, you're condoning - that's all.
PS. If the comments section gets out of hand, I have no problem in disabling it.