Talk:Finn Collins/@comment-76.17.103.248-20150704182642/@comment-26247132-20150704192722

"I'm just getting to know him; so I'm not sure if this is going to lead to a romantic relationship..  But I need to test the waters to find out who I am and what I want.  If I tell him I have a boyfriend, he might not give me that opportunity. "

Right here.You should already be sure that it's NOT going to lead to a romantic relationship because you have a boyfriend. Who says it's all about you and your choice? You already made your choice when you decided to have said boyfriend. Part of being in a relationship is loyalty and trust. Doesn't the boyfriend get to decide anything? Doesn't the other person have any right to decide whether they have romantic interest in someone who has a boyfriend? What is so terrible about either of them that you would have such little respect and want to do something like that to them? Or is it just that your feelings are more important than theirs while you "figure things out?"