Talk:Finn Collins/@comment-76.17.103.248-20150704182642/@comment-26247132-20150704212315

"But wouldn't you be lying to yourself if you don't allow yourself to acknowlege an interest in someone else."

Acknowledging an interest in someone else is not the same as contemplating a potential relationship with someone else. You can and will be attracted to all sorts of people in your life regardles of whether or not you're in a relationship; it's normal biology. It's when you act on that attraction/interest where it crosses the line. Finn acted on his feelings, hence the reason people don't like him. By that one act, he showed he was selfish (cared more about his own feelings than either Clarke's or Raven's) and lacked self-control.

And it's not just females who don't like him for this. I have about 10-15 other friends who watch this show and it's pretty evenly split between males and females. Every single one of them has this on their list of reasons why they didn't like Finn.