Talk:Raven Reyes/@comment-26171557-20150803222530/@comment-25176701-20150803233225

I agree with you, but there's something I need help understanding. I rarely see any negative comments about the Raven and Wick situation, but I always see negative comments about the Finn and Clarke situation.

Raven witnessed the death of her first love and only family member. What does she do? She sleeps with Wick a little over a week later, using him just to make herself feel better.

Finn believed Raven had died on the Ark. He doesn't use Clarke but actually starts to fall IN LOVE with her. They sleep together a little over a week after they meet and AFTER he believes Raven has died.

Yet, people can actually feel bad for Raven but not Finn... Not saying that this is you, BTW. I just wanted to point it out.

To @Skyzy: "Raven has a lot of emotional baggage to sort out and Wick doesn't seem like a patient enough man to wait for her to deal with it."

I believe that he would have been more patient if she hadn't used him for sex just to make herself feel better. If she had waited until she was ready to move on, then I believe he would have been more willing to wait for her.

"but I still feel like he could have been a bit more mature and just not slept with her to begin with, knowing she wasn't ready for more even though he wanted more."

I don't think it's Wick's fault at all. It was Raven who came onto him. If I remember correctly, he actually hesitated before she told him to "stop talking". She was the one who wanted more (or at least thought she did). Wick was hesitant but she kept coming onto him. Wick took that as a sign that she was, in fact, ready for another relationship. Raven should have been the mature one. She should have waited if she knew she wasn't ready. Same goes for when she used Bell. Though, Bellamy knew she wasn't ready and shouldn't have gone along with it.