Board Thread:Off-Topic Discussion/@comment-5441128-20160710153636/@comment-5441128-20160713141921

Arctictigers wrote: In all honesty, I hate when guys say that "nice guys finish last". You either have been simply really unlucky in your love life and haven't found a nice girl for yourself or you are just making assumptions of the "real world". You might have read too many stories or seen too many movies.

I, myself, will admit that I always like the bad guys in movies, shows and books. They are always my favourite characters and I root for them to win. But those are all fictional villains. I sure won't go in the real world and find myself a psychotic criminal because that's how I like my men.

And the story you just told is like one story out of a million happy endings. Plus, women aren't the only ones who  love the idea of certain men. Have you never read The Great Gatsby? Women can think that they are in a happy marriage but the men might be unsatisfied and cheating on their wife. The other way around is very possible too and not at all uncommun unfortunately.

Why don't you go check out Nice Guys by Chester See, Nigahiga & Kevjumba. Maybe you'll feel better about yourself.

Yes, there is also this term too where "Nice Girls finish last." I know both men and women can cheat or be cheated on. There is in fact a Dating Service for married peoole where 13 % thinks it's okay if one in a marriage cheats and the other is back up.

I don't take shows or movies and books into the account. Yes, I am not really that lucky in love.