Talk:Finn Collins/@comment-25228848-20150408132507/@comment-26247132-20150422032521

Remembered her birthday yet forgot to tell Clarke about her before he slept with her. And, as Raven says, 10 days for him to forget about Raven and sleep with Clarke. Then, only 4 days for him to forget about Clarke and sleep with Raven again. Then another couple of days after that, he's holding hands with Clarke even before Raven calls it quits with him in I Am Become Death because he continues to pine after Clarke while pretending to still care romantically about Raven.

On top of it, you can't say Raven and Finn were still dating after saying that Finn didn't technically cheat on Raven because he thought she was dead. Otherwise, you're basically saying that Finn breaks up with Raven whenever it's convenient for him (i.e. when he finds someone passably cute to sleep with till she ignores him). He is not treating Raven (or Clarke) with any respect.

Just because he's a terrible boyfriend doesn't mean he's a terrible person (the massacre proves that well enough). And just because he helped Raven out growing up doesn't mean she's indebted to him and therefore has to put up with his disrespectful behavior, which she doesn't.