Talk:Ontari/@comment-207.172.204.3-20160513231806

Sorry, I found Ontari annoying and am crying no tears. I think she was supposed to be flawed and less than deserving/desirable as the Commander, especially considering what she did to get there and stay there even before the chip. Please do not compare her to Lincoln, he was really an admirable character, the first bridge between two totally different cultures. What admirable things has she done or sacrificed herself for the good of someone else? Ever??? I don't know if I would define what happened between her and Murphy as rape; I always define rape as violently violating someone and causing physical pain and harm. He was definitely coerced against his will and not given a choice (for some death would be an option), but it didn't appear that it was totally repulsive to him. It still is a violation but not rape, more like sexual abuse or using someone, making them submit to sex as a tradeoff for something. That probably happens in reality more than we realize. Women can sexally abuse men, though in the news it seems some older female taking advantage of (on the surface) underage boys. I once knew a male coworker who was physically abused by his own wife, and the cops didn't believe him because he was a former wrestling coach. Needless to say, he was divorced when I was acquainted with him. One thing I like about this show, besides the adult characters (I am well beyond teenage), is that there are many ethical situations and dilemas where either someone makes a difficult choice with consequences, or people have impossible situations to deal with. I actually felt a bit sorry for Murphy, when in season one I just wanted him to disappear.