Talk:Finn Collins/@comment-76.17.103.248-20150704182642/@comment-76.17.103.248-20150704194708

I should have said that if he wanted to move into a romantic relationship first, I would definitely have to tell him about the boyfriend. But as long as the two of us are just in a friendly relationship, I'd need time to figure out if I want it to move forward. But you have a good point. It's not all about me. He should know there's a chance that it won't go anywhere.

But wouldn't you be lying to yourself if you don't allow yourself to acknowlege an interest in someone else. That's what Finn did. He felt loyal to Raven, but he couldn't shut off what he was feeling for Clarke. That's lying to Raven, too. You can't help who you love. BTW, these kids weren't married. There was always a chance they'd both meet someone else. But I appreciate another point of view on this. That's what I want.