Talk:Finn Collins/@comment-107.203.164.79-20151013070002/@comment-76.17.103.248-20151021190626

I couldn't find the comment to see exactly how I said it, but I think you're being a little over sensitive. I don't consider it a personal attack to say that someone is being judgemental or presumptuous. It was probably the basis for the argument I was putting forward. It's not like I called someone stupid or a pinhead for expressing an opinion that I disagree with. That would be a personal attack. You said that I was being absurd. How is that any different from saying someone is being judgemental? Actually, I think the word "absurd" has a more offensive connotation than "judgemental". Judgemental simply means that the person has formed an opinion or drawn a conclusion without considering of other factors invovled, without compassion, without considering that we are all flawed and have all made mistakes. We should, therefore, exercise restraint when it comes to declaring what someone deserves. It's just a word of advice. Saying that I'm absurd is the same as saying that  I'm ridiculous, or that I don't have common sense. That could be taken as a personal offense. But I try not to let things like that bother me unless someone gets really nasty.

All I can say is that my intention is to attack the argument in terms of fairness and logic, never the individual. Debates are suppose to be fun. It's a sharing of ideas. When you said that Finn didn't mourn Raven when he thought he'd never see her again, it was something I hadn't thought of. Apparently, neither had the writers. I like that because learning something you hadn't thought of before broadens your perspective. I would hope that sharing my thought would do the same for someone else. However, a person has to be open minded or nothing changes.

I couldn't follow what you were saying about the radio, but that might be a topic for another time..