Talk:Finn Collins/@comment-76.17.103.248-20150704182642/@comment-76.17.103.248-20150704232357

I truly get what you're saying. Finn was impulsive, and that was one of his flaws. But why do these other people not take into account that Finn didn't act on his attraction until AFTER he thought that everyone on the Ark was going to die and that he'd never see Raven again? Before that, nothing had happened. And it still puzzles me why people consider this one mistake so awful that they couldn't forgive it. They just kept on disliking him even when he tried to apologize to both girls. Yet, the things Bellamy did were so much worse, and they love him. Go figure.

I know that any going steady (for want of a better term) relationship requires fidelity. But unless you're married, if you meet someone else, you're free to terminate one for the other. Of course, you should do one BEFORE the other. If you're married,however,  you're absolutely right. You can't act on any attraction regardless. The rules are much stricter. Anyway, I guess my question now is why people couldn't forgive Finn for one unintended human mistake.