Board Thread:The 100 - Discussion/@comment-24.99.67.19-20140818170707

Clark seems to be the type of person who finds it difficult to forgive. She can't forgive her mother and she can't forgive Finn. Clark was understandably shocked and hurt to find out that Raven was Finn's girlfriend. And her sense of fair play wouldn't let her be a boyfriend stealer. But how long is she going to keep holding this unexpected turn of events against Finn. When Clark explained to Raven that Finn thought that she and everyone on the ark were lost, she expected Raven to get that. So why didn't she get that herself? Besides, I can't think of when there was a good time for Finn to tell her. Certainly not in that spontaneous moment when they gave into their attraction and need for each other. What was he supposed to do in the middle of that passion,. . .say "Oh by the way, I have a girlfriend."? Remember, this happened after Monty fried the wristbands. Finn had lost all hope of communicating with ark. Before that, Finn was simply exploring this new attraction to Clark. I'm not sure there was a right moment even then to tell Clark about Raven. If he made a mistake in that, he's human, for goodness sake. He acknowledged his mistake and apologized. It's true that he needed time to sort out his feelings after Raven's unexpected appearance. And it's obvious that Finn had difficulty with the prospect of hurting Raven. Significantly, however, he let Clark know that he wasn't ready to let go of what they had started. Raven disposed of Finn's infidelity and didn't ever want to talk about it. Clark, on the other hand, still omitted no opportunity to keep chastising him. Then, when Finn finally professed to Clark flat out that he is in love with her, she still spurned him. I don't get it. Whenever Finn was in jeopardy, Clark Freaked out. She obviously loved him. Yet, she responded to Finn's declaration of love with "I'm sorry. I can't..." Can't what? They could all die at any moment. The guy she obviously loves want HER. She needs to let that other stuff go, and take him! 